Building Bridges...

Nothing fancy here, friends. Just tossing the stuff in my head out into the blogosphere to see what may develop...

As you may have guessed from my previous post, I'm reading much these days about young adults, God, Church and technology. This is the kind of stuff that intrigues me, irritates me, rolls around in my head, comes gushing out of my mouth as non-sequiturs, and returns to my own ears newly conceived to go through the whole process again. Current reads? Hamlet's BlackBerry and Handing on the Faith in an Age of Disbelief. A modern philosophy meets Pope Benedict XVI. Awesome.

A true confession: (Is there such thing as an untrue confession? Doesn't that defeat the purpose?) Between the web-based work I do for my job (which, by the way, I'm super excited about) and the web-related thinking I do for my homework, I just. want. it. to. STOP. Seriously. (The irony, of course, is not lost on me that I'm professing my desire to break from the techno-world in the techno-sphere.) I seriously just want to paint something. I need a creative outlet that does not involve a screen. Interestingly enough, that's what Hamlet's Blackberry is about -- finding the "gap" between interfaces so we can accomplish something that is not do-able in 140 characters or less: Depth. And that sounds blissful... but maybe that's just because I have more than 140 characters worth of stuff to say. and ask. and think about. Does technology help me figure out who I am? You know, when I do things like this and type-out-loud? Or does it distract me and keep me from the quiet, alone place where I can explore the deeper questions of what it means to be human? To another level, how do I identify God in this noise and light?

Another thing bouncing in my brain: knowledge of the faith. For my purposes, I'm most concerned with Catholics, but really, studies have shown that people in the United States just have a poor understanding of religious traditions in general. In the biz, we talk about knowledge of the faith as one of the six tasks of catechesis, and it's through the other five tasks that knowledge of the faith is contextualized. SO, if people don't have an experience of God, or community, or relationship, how can we expect that they will know and understand the faith?

Being engaged in social media is all about presence, relationship and community. Prayer is about relationship, communication, presence. The mystical Body of Christ is about community and presence and relationship. All related. How are they connected? What's the bridge? How can we use technology to form a culture that understands what it means to be human, rather than have a culture chasing after the latest and greatest in technology? What do we need to disconnect from technology long enough to be in the quiet, alone place, so we can contemplate -- in depth! -- what it means to be human, created in the image and likeness of God? How can we see and hear Christ in the blinking and beeping of a 4G world?

Any one?

The views expressed in this blog are mine alone and do not necessarily reflect the views of my employer.

Something about 20-Somethings

I have a request, as a young adult: If you are not a young adult, please quit writing about young adults.

Much has been written lately about the 20-somethings (See the August New York Times magazine piece What Is It About the 20-Somethings?) Some of it is undeniably true. Much of it is a matter of perspective. (Do the Boomers who are writing this stuff really understand my generation?) Most of it is not flattering. As one blogger recently noted, "After all, based on all available evidence, Millennials are the most obnoxious, self-entitled, lazy, and willfully ignorant generation to ever pollute the surface of the earth." (You can read the rest here.) And more discussion here. Even the article Why Bashing Millennials is Wrong, which shows the positive side to characteristics otherwise considered negative, identifies Millennials as entitled -- the "poodles of humanity."

While there seem to be a few rational voices out there (20-somethings, by the way) such as this one, who point to the "delayed adolescence" as being more about the economy than maturity, the whole concept of not being an adult because we don't settle into a "real job," get married, buy a house and have a family is asinine. I know plenty of immature Boomers who own houses and have spouses (and former spouses!) who get to keep their adult card, despite being more "adolescent" than most of my friends who are 20-something.

The "religious" responses haven't been tremendously kind either. As I read the title of this blog post about Evangelizing Young Adults , I found myself holding my breath. It seems most of what is being written about Young Adults in the Church either bemoans them as the Missing Generation or, when presenting a legitimate issue separating young adults from the Church, garners comments inciting Millennials to "grow up" and quit being dissenters.

A couple of considerations:
First, the National Study of Youth and Religion and follow up research claims that the best indicator of the faith of an adolescent is the faith of the parents. If adolescents (who have moved into "emerging adulthood" are ascribing to a belief system characterized by researchers as Moralistic Therapeutic Deism, guess what the parents likely believe? Also, this NCR article notes that nearly half of Catholics who are now unaffiliated left the Church prior to age 18. So, really, who do you think made that decision? Exactly how does a "gradual drifting away" work for someone who hasn't been alive long enough to accomplish what used to be considered reaching adulthood? I wasn't raised Catholic, but I seem to recall the words, "As long as you're living under this roof..." being expressed more than once.

I'm not placing the blame on entirely on the parents. As young adults, we certainly have to make a choice to own the faith; however, bemoaning all the faults of the Millennial generation certainly does not bring us to Mass on Sunday, nor does writing off our legitimate issues with Church teaching as mere immaturity. In fact, the broad strokes used to describe my generation as lazy, distracted, uncommitted and lacking faith creates bigger problems than it solves. It is frustrating to those, like me, who are engaged in the Church, and it makes me feel like there is no place for me here. When I'm struggling to have my own voice heard, to have my own spiritual needs met, to feel that I belong...to what would I be inviting my peers? The decline in Mass attendance is caused by an absence greater than my generation. The lack of knowledge and understanding of Church teachings began before we were born. It's not a young adult problem; it's a Church problem. Maybe we can be part of the solution, if there's room for us at the table.

The truth is we have many gifts. We are innovative. We are creative. We understand how to build community and what it means to be "universal." We are committed to service, the "delay" of a "real job" often caused by committing a year or more to service to the poor, vulnerable, or under-resourced. We're intelligent, and we're making a difference. Yeah, we've got our issues, but who doesn't?

You want to know why young adults aren't in the pews? Try asking us, when you're ready to listen. Let us be part of the conversation and we might find a solution. And stop talking about us like we're not here.

The views expressed in this blog are mine alone and do not necessarily reflect the views of my employer.